Oops. Now, thanks to an old flame I rediscovered I had started a blog. Ok, I really am going to try and keep up this time. Life is dramatically different from when I started this - or maybe I'm dramatically different. Not sure yet.
Still raising grandkids, but in a much better place about it than I had been. Anger, disappointment and resentment toward the bios is pretty much gone. Kids are doing well and their mom is doing really well. Dad, not so much.He can't seem to stay sober.
It looks like all the crazy of the past few years may have had a higher purpose. It looks like I may have found a calling as an advocate for grandparents raising grandkids. Should be interesting. I'll try to remember to update now and again.